You know what’s exhausting?Being the one who always shows up. Who texts first. Who forgives first. Who defends people when they’re not even in the room.Meanwhile, when your world crumbles a little? Crickets. Not even the sympathy emoji. It’s not just exhausting—it’s soul-splintering. The Unpaid, Unseen Therapist Vibes You listen. You care. You check in with your friends even when you’re the one hanging by an emotional thread and running on three hours of sleep and caffeine that’s mostly tears now.But when you need someone to say “Hey, you…